There is no right or wrong, there is only yes or no.

Indecision is where we get stuck, make some space in your mind for the beliefs that create inspired action. I will guide you every step of the way. Life coaching is life having your best friend with you who has solutions and your best interest in mind.

The only thing you need to do is say yes to you.


With a past of trauma, abuse, neglect, societal constructs that lack connection with the natural rhythms of the planet and celestial bodies as guides,

a miseducation in what defines personal success and intimacy in relationships,

along with the undermined value of family and community,

it’s all to common to question our self identity and worth in the world.

Who are we really?

How can we simply BE in the joy of living?

What else in our life is a lie or false story?

Who knows the real truth?

Walls of fear our built.

Trust in all relationships becomes impossible.

Life becomes unrecognizable and uncharted.

Follow through and commitment in all areas becomes a struggle.

Self sabotage and low self esteem from limiting beliefs of self worth become a way of life.

Depression and anxiety creep in from loss and mourning.

Bad habits form as a way of emotional buffering from feelings of existential dispaire and a spiritual deficit.

I experienced all of this and more.

I was a victim.

I took back my power.

Now I am a hero.

I learned how to watch my breath.

I dug deep into the wellspring of my internal resources that connected me with the power of the universe.

I got to know my mind and body on my terms.

I actively worked on self inquiry.

I took control of my thoughts.

I built confidence through holistic health, exercise and the ancient wisdom of my womb.

I created rituals of personal prayer, movement and communing with nature.


I allowed my greatness to shine.

Awareness, education and growth are the 3 steps we take to turn your problems into power.

I help you rediscover yourself on your terms are write your story of truth and boldness.

I use sacred movement, mindful thinking and ceremony to guide you into your personal power,

of the ritual that is your life.

This starts with one phone call and ends with never again having to say you are sorry for how anyone else feels.

Where ever you are in the world, there is room for you here.

My name is Mary Wagstaff, I am a mind body coach.

I want to help you reclaim your story.

“Mary is a treasure. I’ve struggled with seasonal depression and general anxiety for years and my ability to cope has always measured up to, “I’ll deal with it when it happens.” My first session in Mary’s 8-week program was comfortable and almost like I was talking to a long time friend. She listened to my struggles, offered support at the moment, and immediately got to work on a plan to get ahead of the SADs and pull me out of my patterns of anxiety. Mary is incredibly intuitive, intelligent, and realistic about fitting mindfulness into your daily life no matter how busy you are. I never felt like it was too much work or not practical for my schedule. She understands that people also have lives and jobs and she was always happy to tweak our meeting times to fit my schedule. I really appreciated having someone that understood my goals as well as how much time I had to give towards them. The program itself had a natural progression of weekly goals and themes. All of which provided me with tools and coping mechanisms to use for whenever my negative thinking crept in. The program helped me become more in tune with my mind and body and put the origins of my struggles into a perspective that felt so much more manageable to me. I’m so grateful for Mary and the things I learned while working with her. I carry them with me now in my daily life as an arsenal for when days get dark. Thank you so much, Mary!!” -Sarah P.

“Mary is a powerhouse of knowledge and spirit. Her coaching has helped me become more in tune with my thoughts and behaviors and helped me find joy in exploring body movement. I suffer from back pain and negative habits and Mary and her 8 week program , from Problems to power, has equipped me with simple but powerful daily tools to overcome both!” - Matthew G.